12 Steps of Addiction RecoverySample

Step 8 - Make a list. Step 8: We make a list of all persons we had harmed and became willing to make amends to them all. Biblically, this step aligns with the concept of making restitution and seeking forgiveness for wrongs we have committed. In Luke 19:8, we see the example of Zacchaeus, who after encountering Jesus, decided to give back four times the amount he had cheated from others. This act of restitution demonstrated his willingness to make things right and seek forgiveness for his actions. As we make a list of those we have harmed, it is important to approach this process with humility and a willingness to take responsibility for our actions. In Matthew 5:23-24, Jesus instructs us to first go and be reconciled with those we have wronged before presenting our offering to God. This emphasizes the importance of seeking reconciliation with those we have harmed and making amends for our actions. To fully embrace step 8, it is important to reflect on the harm we have caused others and approach them with a sincere desire to make things right. This may involve apologizing for our actions, offering a form of restitution or making reparations, and appropriately seeking forgiveness from those we have wronged. We can find strength and guidance in the promise of 1 John 1:9, which says, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness." This assurance of forgiveness can give us the courage to approach those we have harmed and seek reconciliation. As we work through this step, we may also need to seek the help and guidance of a Christian mentor or [ counselor ](http://www.drdougweiss.com/) . They can provide support and guidance as we navigate the process of making amends and seeking forgiveness. Through this process of making amends and seeking reconciliation, we can begin to experience healing and restoration in our relationships. We can also find peace and freedom from the guilt and shame that often accompany addiction. In 2 Corinthians 5:17, we are reminded that through Christ, we are a new creation and the old has passed away. We can embrace this truth as we seek to make things right with those we have wronged and move forward in our recovery journey. Reflection Questions: -Who are the people that I have harmed and need to make amends to? -What specific actions can I take to make things right with those I have wronged? -How can seeking forgiveness and making amends bring healing and restoration to my relationships? -How can I rely on God's strength and guidance as I work through this step?