Now concerning virgins I have no command of the Lord, but I give an opinion as one who by the mercy of the Lord is trustworthy. I think then that this is good in view of the present distress, that it is good for a man to remain as he is. Are you bound to a wife? Do not seek to be released. Are you released from a wife? Do not seek a wife. But if you marry, you have not sinned; and if a virgin marries, she has not sinned. Yet such will have trouble in this life, and I am trying to spare you. But this I say, brethren, the time has been shortened, so that from now on those who have wives should be as though they had none; and those who weep, as though they did not weep; and those who rejoice, as though they did not rejoice; and those who buy, as though they did not possess; and those who use the world, as though they did not make full use of it; for the form of this world is passing away. But I want you to be free from concern. One who is unmarried is concerned about the things of the Lord, how he may please the Lord; but one who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how he may please his wife, and his interests are divided. The woman who is unmarried, and the virgin, is concerned about the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and spirit; but one who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how she may please her husband. This I say for your own benefit; not to put a restraint upon you, but to promote what is appropriate and to secure undistracted devotion to the Lord. But if any man thinks that he is acting unbecomingly toward his virgin daughter, if she is past her youth, and if it must be so, let him do what he wishes, he does not sin; let her marry. But he who stands firm in his heart, being under no constraint, but has authority over his own will, and has decided this in his own heart, to keep his own virgin daughter, he will do well. So then both he who gives his own virgin daughter in marriage does well, and he who does not give her in marriage will do better. A wife is bound as long as her husband lives; but if her husband is dead, she is free to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord. But in my opinion she is happier if she remains as she is; and I think that I also have the Spirit of God.

…in view of the present distress...

To handle life and marriage with balance in challenging times, remember that nothing is permanent except the Lord and His work. Be sure you focus on Him.

…it is good for a man to remain as he is… v. 25-27

But if you marry, you have not sinned…Yet such will have trouble in this life… v. 28

The word trouble is actually translated “tribulation” and means to be “pressed together tightly.”

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What if God's primary intent for your marriage isn't to make you happy…but holy?

—Gary Thomas, The Sacred Marriage

But I say, brethren, the time has been shortened, so that from now on those who have wives should be as though they had none. v. 29

For in the resurrection they neither marry nor are given in marriage but are like angels in heaven.

Nothing is permanent—and nothing is eternal except the Lord and His work.

But I want you to be free from concern… v. 32

So then both he who gives his own virgin daughter in marriage does well, and he who does not give her in marriage will do better. v. 38

A wife is bound as long as her husband lives… v. 39

To handle life and marriage with balance in challenging times, remember that nothing is permanent except the Lord and His work. Be sure you focus on Him.