2. Emotional Attraction
Value them
Does your spouse know how much you value them?
If you don’t like what you’re seeing- Say it. You can raise the value of the person.
Speak Life to them
So much of our relationships are affected by insecurities. Early on we see her insecurities - Her skin was insecurity. He speaks into her deficit.
Women - want to be admired for who they are - beautiful, loving, kind, blessed your mine
Men - want to be admired for what they do - work, yard work, etc.
Adultery happens when someone else begins to speak life into a person where there is a deficit.
Think good thoughts about them - Like myrrh, fragrance reminds me what to think about
The battle to keep love starts in the mind. The enemy will try to get you to think about others…to think about the negative in your spouse and the positive in someone else.